10 Date night conversation starters
Get Encouragement10 Date Night Conversation Starters
Get EncouragementHere are 10 questions for your next date night.
There is a famous experiment where a couple is asked to spend an hour asking each other questions and listening. Usually, these couples report having romantic feelings for one another, even if they have never met.
With that knowledge, what do you think an hour of questions would do to strengthen your marriage? Probably a lot! But what questions should you ask? What are the best date night topics?
We’ve compiled a list of date night conversation starters that can help!
Family-Related Questions
Everyone’s family has had a significant impact on who they are. By talking about family, you can learn about your partner’s past and what that means for your future. Here are a few questions we love on this topic:
Gratitude
1. What is one thing your parents did that you are grateful for?
This question is great because it shows you a little of what your partner wants in their future lives. It’s also a way to develop a greater love of your in-laws.
Dad or Mom?
2. Who are you closer to, your dad or mom?
This question opens up the family conversation in an easy way. If you have been married for a while, you might already know the answer to this question, but it can be an excellent way to understand why.
Silly Questions
Sometimes, asking emotional questions can be a little draining. Add some variety with a few light-hearted questions!
Pennies
3. How many pennies do you think could fit into this room?
This is a fun question because it lets you see how your partner’s brain works. It also can just be a fun conversation to lighten the mood.
Potatoes
4. Would you rather feel like a potato or look like a potato?
This question can easily lead to laughter. But profoundly, it also helps you see if your partner would choose how they look over how they feel. Similar choices can come up in marriage.
Movies/TV Shows
Studies have found the average American spends 3 hours a day watching TV shows and movies. Media is such a huge part of most of our lives, and it can be a great bonding experience with your partner.
Switching Characters
5. If you could switch two movie characters, what switch would lead to the funniest movies?
This question can lead to the most brilliant switcharoos. You might already know your partner’s favorite movie, but this question might introduce you to a different film they like.
Death of a Movie Character
6. If you could kill any movie character, who would it be and why?
This is a way to find out your partner’s least favorite movie character. It can also lead to a funny inside joke.
Personal Questions
Of course, to really get to know your partner, you need to ask some questions about them.
Envy
7. Who do you envy the most?
Understanding your partner’s jealousy helps you know what they want most out of life. Whether it is money or looks, their answer will clearly show their priorities.
Spirituality
8. What are your central religious beliefs?
If you look at most churches, they have a statement of faith about their beliefs. It is also very important to assess what your partner’s statement is. It can be very insightful to look at a specific spiritual belief and fully understand their exact feelings about that topic.
Future Questions
This person is your whole future, and the more you know about your partner’s future goals, the better you can plan together.
Dream Job
9. If you could have any kind of job in the future, what would it be?
This question shows you two things: what your partner’s passion is and whether they are currently working towards their dream job. If they are not, it can lead to an interesting conversation about what is keeping them from working towards their dream.
Business
10. If you had unlimited money to start a business, what would it be?
Similar to the previous question, this reveals what your partner’s priorities are. It also might give you some ideas for future business endeavors.